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Playing Small will Never Serve You Dec 01, 2024

Dream Big, Act Bold.

We all have dreams. Big ones, small ones, ones we’ve had for years but haven’t pursued. And too often, we play small with those dreams. We convince ourselves that "one day" we’ll act on them, or we wait for the "perfect" time. But here’s the truth: your dreams deserve bold action now.

I remember when I was 33 and had the opportunity to return to graduate school. At the time, I had a secure career, a family, and a comfortable life. It would’ve...

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Leadership Isn’t Taught - It’s Lived Nov 30, 2024

Here’s What Most Programs Won’t Tell You

Most coaching programs want to teach you leadership. But here’s the thing—they can’t. Leadership isn’t something you’re taught—it’s something you live. It’s the culmination of experiences, challenges, and decisions that shape who you are and how you lead.

I’ll never forget one of the most pivotal moments in my leadership journey. It was years ago, during my time in the Navy. I was 18,...

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The Lie of Productivity Nov 28, 2024

How Busyness is Distracting You from True Progress

If you measure your success by how busy you are, you’re missing the point. We live in a culture that glorifies busyness, but here’s the secret: being busy isn’t the same as being productive. In fact, busyness often distracts us from making real progress.

I remember a time early in my career when I was hustling from one task to the next. I was running my consulting business, working long hours, managing multiple projects, and...

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The Art of Failure Nov 26, 2024

Why You’re Afraid of It, and Why It’s the Only Way Forward

Failure.

It’s a word we’ve all been conditioned to fear, but if you want to grow, you need to get comfortable with it. The reality is that failure isn’t something to avoid—it’s the only way forward. It’s not just a lesson you learn—it’s the actual vehicle for transformation.

Years ago, when I was part of an M&A team in Florida, we were in the process of rolling up 17...

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The Myth of Perfect Balance Nov 25, 2024

Why Chasing It Could Be Holding You Back

We’ve all heard it—"balance is the key to life." But what if I told you the relentless pursuit of perfect balance is actually what’s holding you back? The truth is, life isn’t always about balance—it’s about fully immersing yourself in the moment, owning the highs and the lows, and knowing when to let one thing take precedence over another.
Let me tell you a story.

When I was in my early 30s, I found myself juggling a...

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